©Jade Beall Photography Charity, mother of 3
Jade posted on FB the other day about a photo shoot she had with a lovely mother of 3, Charity.
Women feeling dissatisfied with our own bodies is nothing new. The movement toward self acceptance and self love is a challenge for many. The fact that our bodies are constantly changing, especially when we have children, doesn’t help. We have to constantly learn to love and accept differences that weren’t there before.
I know our acceptance of ourselves is affected by external influences and something Charity said to Jade showed me just how important the attitudes of those around us are as we develop our views about our own bodies and those of others.
I also grew up with veiny women in my family and my dad actually has gnarly variscosities in his legs too. When I was a kid, I thought it was normal and liked the way they felt like worms under the skin. My mom and grandma never took measures to hide their veins and no one really talked about them being unsightly, so I guess I just accepted them as normal. ~ Charity
via Jade Beall Photography. Click the link to read the entire interview.
“I just accepted them as normal.” Normal, not something to be ashamed of or to hide. Just a normal thing that occurs to varying degrees in many bodies, both male and female. No big deal. It just is.
Just think about the difference that belief makes. No pressure, no feeling bad, no hiding. It’s freeing, it’s empowering.
Think about the influence we as adults have on children. Our actions and our words that we use with little thought are moulding the beliefs and attitudes our children will hold about themselves and others as they grow up.
“If only I could lose five pounds.”
“Why doesn’t she take care of herself?”
“Did you see the size of Mildred’s veins?”
“I’ll just have salad, want to watch my girlish figure.”
“Ah she knows I fell for her long legs.”
“I’d never stay with a woman who let herself go like that.”
“Short hair on a woman is too masculine.”
Laughable except that I’ve heard every one of those things recently said in front of children.
Charity’s family helped her develop a sense of body image that has helped her find an inner security many would envy. Her attitude is evident as she speaks about her pregnancy.
Pregnancy is one of those states of being that changes our anatomy and I’m just so grateful for the gift of bearing this child that I see all these changes to my body as a small price to pay. ~ Charity
As a mother with that kind of attitude, I have a feeling Charity’s children will grow up feeling empowered and learning how to love themselves unconditionally right from the start.
Thank you Jade and Charity for sharing such a wonderful lesson.
Jade is also working on a new project to develop a Beautiful Body Project Multi-Media Story Website.
We are currently building a dynamic digital-newspaper-style website which will be the global media platform to showcase the videos images and stories of the women these photographers & videographers find in each of their countries, forming a cohesive yet diverse body of work unlike any existing media platform available today, dedicated to truthful images and inspiring stories of women about topics that aren’t often explored in mainstream media: birth, breast-feeding, living with cancer, miscarriage, loss, eating disorders, self-harm, sexual abuse, and beyond as a way to illuminate hope with the larger goal of building healthy self-esteem in current and future generations of women! ~ Jade Beall
If that’s a project you see the value in follow the link to see how you can be a part of making the vision a reality.
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